A diagram check, or similar, gives you a more accurate estimation of what’s incentive compatible. In this instance we’re discussing, it’s attempting to avoid the case where a counterparty increases the ephemeral anchor value to either pay itself directly or pay for another transaction beyond the pure burn.
The responding(“you”) party would have had to increase the package feerate to make it more incentive compatible to mine, so bip125 rule3 concerns(which v3 intends to mitigate), and incremental feerate aside, I’m not sure what is problematic. Maybe if you have a concrete example?